By Jennifer Morrison, PsyD.
Throughout the course of our lifetime, there are number of psychological hurdles that we have to overcome in order to continue to grow along the path of psychological development. There are several different age groups, and with each group comes a unique developmental task the person must grapple with in order to continue to grow psychologically. Without accomplishing the developmental task, a person can remain stuck and continue to struggle both with their self-identity and in their relationships. This article was influenced by Erikson’s psychosocial stages of development.
After adolescence, the individual moves into the next stage of development, early adulthood. Many people may think that once you are 18 you are done developing, but there are three major developmental tasks still to come in adulthood. From 18 to 40, individuals seek love: some will start their families during this time, while others will look for companionship. During this stage, ideally the young adult has relationships that are intimate and satisfying. However, if they do not obtain these relationships, the individual may feel isolated from others.
The next developmental age is middle adulthood; this is a time when the individual takes on more responsibilities. The two most important things during this time period are the individual’s career and the individual’s family. Ideally, the individual is more stable than the previous stage and is working to make a difference in society. Major changes can occur during this time, including career changes and children leaving the home. Some people may struggle during this stage as they seek their purpose.
The third stage of adulthood and the last stage of psychological development across the lifespan involves reflection over one’s life. If successful during this stage, the individual looks back and feels content and fulfilled with a sense of having a meaningful life and having contributed to society. Those who are less successful during this stage may despair as they reflect back on their perceived failures. These individuals may fear death because they begin to wonder was life worth it and what the purpose was.
For more information, please refer to Erikson’s The Life Cycle Completed, or if you are concerned about your psychological development, contact a mental health professional. This article is the third and final in a series of psychological development across the lifespan.
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