By Dr. Kuljit Kapur, Transitions Hospice and Palliative Care

As a Hospice and Palliative Care physician, many people have asked me if providing end-of-life care, day in and day out, is excruciatingly sad. Do I come home and cry each day from seeing death? “Quite the opposite,” I respond. “End-of-life care is highly satisfying and morally rewarding work!”

End-of-life specialists compassionately gear patients with terminal diagnoses toward their passions, legacy, and unique meaning here on this earth. We medically manage symptoms based on their goals—establishing a unique plan of care with the patient and their family. We accomplish this plan of care with a community of experts in end-of-life medical management, spirituality, and psychosocial work. We must demystify misconceptions about hospice. Patients do not always die very soon, we do not medicate them to death (that is against the law), all meds are not taken away, and you can still see your doctors! We educate and hold patients’ hands when they are most vulnerable. We use the lowest possible efficacious doses of medicine to relieve symptoms like pain, anxiety, shortness of breath, or swelling. The focus is life, “the how good as opposed to the how long” in our work. Patients who come onto hospice at the right time may live longer because we often see in end-of-life care that “less can be more.” The mind, body, and spirit are focuses of hospice. As we say at Transitions, “It’s about living.”

The relationships we develop with our patients allow us to walk the path of suffering with them, which was my mission from the beginning, as written in my medical school personal statement in 2002. Families come to us for education, someone to make it okay or to guide them when faced with complex difficult decisions, such as taking a loved one off a ventilator or stopping IV antibiotics. This element of healthcare provides a window to deliver quality care at such a delicate and crucial time.

I will never forget the breast cancer patient who had an aggressive cancer ravaging her arm with tumor burden and infection. She had such a sense of humor, knowing that she could not go to her trailer home this summer because she was too weak. She reset her expectations of herself and agreed her goal was proper pain management, even if it meant some sedation from medication. I always remember her because she had the best attitude while her arm was almost falling off from a pathologic fracture. I learned that day that life is about attitude, no matter what is happening. She was so brave in the face of adversity, keeping her spirit strong and her smile shining until the end. Her hospice experience allowed her dignity and comfort until her death. Practicing hospice has been a teacher to me. I have learned some of life’s greatest wisdom by observing this type of bravery.

Recently, the young wife of a head and neck cancer patient I saw at Transitions did not understand from a spiritual perspective why we were not recommending IV fluids in her husband’s head and neck cancer. I was able to sit down with her, over some ginger tea, and explain his cancer and how IV fluids could detract from comfort now since his lungs were fluid overloaded. She shared her Hindu spirituality with me and stated that if only she had done more reiki and if he had more love, this would not have happened. She relayed seven years of anticipatory grief that day with me. Slowly, I allowed her to speak and guided her with questions and gently educated her on how we could accomplish her goal, but differently than she thought, medically. We spoke about self care, boundaries, spirituality, and how she would be the lead of the home after he was gone. She became receptive after several physicians tried to talk to her in the hospital. With no agenda, I just met her where she was and she called me the next day to transition him to hospice. She understood and trusted that their goals were my goals. I even added medications, in fact, that afforded him a comfortable death. To her, this meant if he went in peace, his next journey would be of peace.

A patient of mine from 2013, who was a writer, Madeline L’Engle, wrote “until my journey led me to hospice, I didn’t understand how valuable they are. I misunderstood what they did and when I mistakenly thought that they were called end of life and didn’t know about the quality of life that is given to the patient and support for the family much earlier than that! I had a team consisting of a specialized team of doctors, nurses, and a chaplain who truly made my situation ‘quality!’ They are people who not only care about me and my family’s needs, but share themselves. They are a community of care. The ‘quality of life’ is not only about medical solutions to situations that the disease causes, but planners about what to do when this happens and we do this when this no longer works. It is about keeping me comfortable and doing what I am able, as long as I can. They are walking with me and my family and that is a tremendous gift, to know that you are not alone! Help me spread the word about hospice, for life is precious!”

Hospice is a misnomer, a gift with a bad wrapping job, because it is so often misconstrued. When we finally understand that it’s so much more than death, but in fact about ensuring that patients live the type of life they want, for the rest of the time they have on this earth, we begin to realize what hospice really is—it’s about living.

No One Transitions Alone

Submitted by Transitions Hospice and Palliative Care, Quad Cities

At Transitions Hospice, we hold ourselves to the highest standards in hospice and palliative care. We specialize in supporting individuals and families who are facing the physical, emotional, social, and spiritual challenges confronted when dealing with terminal illness. Hospice care neither prolongs nor shortens life. Our objective is to maximize our patients’ comfort and quality of life during the time they have remaining.

From our inception, we knew Transitions Hospice would differentiate itself from other hospice agencies because of our profound belief that no individual should die alone—ever.

We consider it the responsibility of our home hospice care team to be with the patient when they pass away. Paramount to our philosophy is to also ensure, when the time comes, our patient is experiencing their final transition on their own specified terms—in comfort and with dignity. We have nearly a 94 percent rate of meeting this goal but we challenge ourselves to be even better. Transitions Hospice will only be satisfied when 100 percent of our patients pass with a dedicated caregiver by his or her side.

Transitions Hospice nurses are always available after hours. Critical care is never triaged to the family or third parties. Our team partners with you to develop a customized plan of care that respects the wishes of our patients and their families. Once the care plan is in place, we commit to the uncompromising demands of home hospice care.

Transitions Hospice provides all levels of care.

Hospice services are a Medicare Part A benefit. The Medicare Hospice benefit offers four levels of care:

• Routine Hospice Care
• Respite Care
• Continuous Care
• InPatient Care

• Medicaid and most insurance plans also cover hospice care:
• 24 hour nursing
• 24 hour Social Work & Counseling Support
• Volunteer Services
• Physicians and Nurse Practitioners that are Hospice and Palliative Care Certified